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2023.03.26 11:14 dreamyysweets My dad doesn't notice me
sorry for any formatting issues, am on mobile
for some context, i am nonbinary, so i will be referring to myself as they/them, but i am not out to my parents so they still see me as their daughter.
my (19) dad (51) has never really paid much attention to me, for as long as i can remember. the only times we talk, it's about serious stuff (think cars, taxes, renovating, money,... )
i've found out a few years back that a lot of my trauma stems from being left alone most of my childhood and not spending the time i needed with my parents. now i don't remember much of my childhood other than what i see in pictures or hear in stories, but what i do genuinely remember is that they were always too busy to play games or go places (other than a restaurant we frequented, owned by their friend)
my mom (43) has changed on that front, for the most part, and we sometimes go to the gym together or go shopping in the city. we also talk alot more about personal stuff and some of my interests, and i'm pretty happy with my relationship with her.
my dad on the other hand, never does stuff with me, we barely talk (as i said before) and i barely get a hello from him if we do exist in the same room. i still live at home, and while i spend most of my time in my bedroom, i go down to the living room a few times a day. he's usually at his pc playing games, watching something or he fell asleep and most of the time he's either too invested to hear someone come in or just turns his head to look who came in. when he does turn i say hello but rarely get one back.
since a few years i've been thinking that he didn't want another kid. he has a daughter (27) with his ex that lives alone w her fiance, and she's always seemed like his favorite. i don't blame her in any way, i think she's a fun and nice person but we also never really bonded. whenever there's a family gathering like xmas or a birthday, he's always asking her how she's doing, how this is going, what her thoughts are on that, etc.. all things i never hear or get to talk about. i understand that she lives alone and they don't see eachother that often but they message frequently and i feel like he's more interested in her life than mine.
on to the main reason i'm typing this out. i got my hair cut on monday, it's pretty short and very different from what it was. the day of, when i came home, my dad was also home and once again just turned to see who came in. i thought he noticed and just didn't think much of it, wouldn't have blamed him for that lol. since then, i've been in the living room while he was at his desk. he's asked me if i needed something from the grocery store, looked directly at me while asking. he's been at his desk while i had a conversation with my mom how my day went.
then yesterday (saturday), i just got home from grocery shopping, and he gets off his desk to get some food, he looks at me weird. he asks me "did you get your hair done?" i thought since i just washed it he meant something like that, but when my mom said "it's been like that the whole week" it really sunk in what he meant. he hadn't noticed my hair in a whole week. he tried to defend himself by saying "it's not like i see u much" but i literally saw him every day since monday. i haven't been able to get that off my mind. he really does not pay attention to me. damn.
anyway. thanks for reading if you did. i know i should go to therapy for this but i don't have time or money for that atm. just gonna try move on from this.
tldr: dad was too busy with himself to notice my haircut for a whole week, making me think he never wanted me in the first place.
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2023.03.26 11:14 Sept3mbur Got first binder, and got called son by my father
My mother ordered my binder a few days ago and it arrived in the morning! :D
I struggled to put it on like- it took me like ten minutes just to wriggle in my binder, as only five to get it off.
Today was fun though, first I got my binder so I put that on then I decided to pack for the day. Then me and my mother went to town, she even brought me into hot topic and I got some ADORABLE pins and some new gloves! Then I called my best friend to tell her about today and we planned a sleep over, while my mom took my brother and his friend to the dollar store my dad hung out with me, he even called me his son. But now I'm sitting here typing this at 3 am while she's just sitting there playing games.
ANYWAY! I hope y'all had a good day :D
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2023.03.26 11:13 SHWM_DEV CGI Teaser Trailer - the Steam page is up!!
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2023.03.26 11:13 AITAflyer AITA For Throwing Up On Someone and Cussing Them Out?
Throwaway because I know people who follow my main.
I, (27F) went on a 12 hour flight with my friend, “Steven” (30M) last week, and just got back two days ago. I usually don’t fly places, because I get air sick and hate traveling, but my husband paid for me and him to go on a vacation, before he got busy with work, so me and my friend went instead.
My husband forgot to tell me that he was going to upgrade to first class while at the airport, and since me and my friend didn’t know he didn’t already upgrade, we were both in economy. I was stuck in a window seat, and Steven was a row behind me in the middle seat in his row.
As I said before, I get air sick. I throw up, and so I need to be able to sit in the aisle seat. A woman and her daughter (probably 30-35 and 13-15) sat in my row, her daughter in the aisle and her on the middle. I told her I would like to sit in the aisle seat because I get sick. She told me her daughter has a stomach issue which means she needs the bathroom in case of an “emergency” which I doubt. Her daughter looked guilty and wouldn’t look at me, so I assume she was lying. Her mom also said she booked the specific seats they had so they would be near the bathroom, and have aisle seats, but to me it sounds like she was too poor to get better seats, and she wanted to be petty because I needed the aisle.
Steven also asked the person who had the aisle in his row, who said they preferred his seat, so he didn’t move.
The flight starts, and an hour or two into the flight I feel sick. I woke up the woman who was asleep, and asked her and her daughter to please get up so I can get to the bathroom, because the woman was on the heavier side and I don’t want my butt in her face, or her touching me. She looked at me upset, and asked me to walk around her. I said, “no, I need you to get up, please do hurry, I’m going to be sick” she told me to just walk around her, and closed her eyes, which was incredibly rude.
At that point I was feeling extremely sick, and threw up on her. She gasped, and her daughter looked like she was about to cry.
I told her “see, you selfish b##ch? I told you to get up because I was sick, and you f###ing didnt. I hope you’re happy.” A flight attendant came, helped clean up, and escorted them TO FIRST CLASS. I was horrified they were rewarding her behavior. Steven came to sit by me the rest of the flight, and I admit I was pissed off.
When I told my husband he said the girl and her mom were at fault, but Steven and my parents say I should have just scooted around them or thrown up on the floor, but my bag was on the ground and I didn’t want to get vomit on it.
AITA even though they didn’t listen to me when I asked for the aisle and even though they didn’t move?
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2023.03.26 11:12 DoctorPeckerChecker AITA For Glancing At Other Women?
So to get straight to the point easily while also giving all relevant information whether for or against me;
My wife and I have a rocky history and I'm admittedly not the good guy in story, if it were a movie I would view myself as the antagonist in many scenes and most of what I'm writing here are things I wish I could take back. Use the context I'm providing as consideration for the grand view of my AITA question but don't address them as my AITA question -- I know I'm the asshole.
I've spoken to and shared sexual content with women on the internet multiple times, was caught every time, as well as having attempted to cheat (met with someone but didn't touch them) once a year ago while drunk in Vegas for work. My loving wife decided that past all of these issues, after countless days through countless occasions, she'd give me yet again another chance. At this point I think we can all conclude I didn't deserve it and IATA. She requested that I love her right, don't watch any porn (this was another issue in the past that I completely quit for her after a lifelong addiction, which I do feel deserves a LOT of credit for the effort given considering it took multiple attempts), and don't look at other women.
This is where we reach the primary point behind me writing this post. We're a year down the road and divorce is imminent due to her final request, no looking at other women. I do not gawk, I do not stare, I look for at most a few seconds with the occasional double take. Never have I done anything that would make the other person either notice or be uncomfortable.
I've also made it a point to not do this in front of my wife (yet she'll still find a woman in public she's uncomfortable with, lock on to my eyes, and if they happen to glance in that woman's direction more than once while I'm scanning -- game over for me.) I'm at the point where I need to stare at the floor because there's a chance that she'll think I'm gawking, yet when I have even the slightest bit of situational awareness I'm "checking out other bitches."
I admitted to her that when at the store, random places in public, etc, I do look at attractive people just like any other person would (she claims she doesn't). I make it clear that it's only when she's not around. I'm not willing to budge on this, and she's threatening divorce if I don't stop "putting other bitches above her."
She claims a big part of this is trust issues from the past I've described above -- I find the two to be irrelevant for anyone older than 12. I never went after anyone I was glancing at, and the correlation is practically non-existent. AITA?
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2023.03.26 11:10 YAmIHavingToPostThis So, apparently Texas has death panels now 🤦🏼♀️
2023.03.26 11:08 KingoftheRednecks Spears Among the Stars, ch 24
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Mogan would have thought a beach-side wedding would be a more romantic affair, and perhaps for them it was. For the tribe, it was a sign that the next generation would be wildly different from the one before it. In few cases would it be this extreme, but Mogan wondered if they would know anything like the hunts and the gathering trips he grew up with.
Perhaps, on the other hand, it was a sign of life, something to counteract the death that had surrounded the tribe for months. Perhaps the problems were really eased, or perhaps Mogan thought so since he didn't have to deal with as many of them.
Not that there weren't problems, here and there. The prohibition on fighting carried outside the tribe—otherwise, how would disputes get settled?--and so there were a dozen duels, two of them resulting in deaths. It seemed that the use of laser pistols, starting with both weapons holstered, was becoming popular, and while this was slightly less dangerous than microflinted spearheads, it was considerably moreso than knives, which were the usual weapon of choice. Then again, one of those deaths came from knives, modern knives with monomolecular edges.
On the other hand, medicine was so different here that nearly anything short of “dead before he hit the ground” was curable. Infection was a thing of the past, and while Mogan had treated infected wounds and outbreaks that swept through the village, thanks to his own implant he had never gotten sick. It was seen as one of his “blessings,” that the spirits of disease were frightened to touch him, and it was taken for granted that Ellisan never got sick either.
For that matter, perhaps fifty women were with child when they left their planet, and not a single woman had died in childbirth. That was a new thing, one which confounded every shaman. Everyone knew that a woman's first birth was the most dangerous day of her life, and for this to no longer be a danger at all was a sign that the San were definitely on the way to better things.
He was right in what he'd suggested to Ellisan, in that the minor explosions were more a result of stress than excess. He himself hadn't touched a woman since Hyeshi, not in anything approaching lust, but he suspected that were it not for that, and were he a younger man he might well be out there himself, appreciating the planet's bounty.
But instead of growing, the fuss died down, and while there were still a few who insisted on drinking too much, control of the budget helped to ease that back as well.
Chadnov, amusingly, had settled into the life of a married man. Ellisan had told him that he'd even asked her quietly for advice on what would make a pregnancy easier. Mogan wasn't sure how serious the man was, but he hadn't been responsible for any of the messes that Mogan had had to clean up, so that was a good sign.
Perhaps even better was that they had spent some time talking. He had seen some marriages—especially ones that started with a child on the way like this one had, where the two of them went months learning about each other in the physical sense without having any discussions about what they were and wanted. Perhaps Chadnov was wiser than Mogan had given him credit for.
And Mogan, in turn, had more time to relax. He never got used to the vehicles, but he was able to swim and to spend time walking among the prettier parts of the city, to try different foods and drinks, and sometimes to just sit on the beach like an indulgent father and watch his people enjoy themselves.
He wasn't the only one who spent time working. Many of them tried to find more information—the stealthiest of the fore-runners were picked to look over the barracks, and others were sent to befriend soldiers and see if they would talk. Ellisan insisted on doing some of it herself. Mogan didn't much like it, but she could pass for Sylfa, especially with cosmetics making her look older, and Mogan did trust her more than the Sylfa poachers with them. He didn't truly think they would betray the tribe, but they weren't part of it, and the people of the San were not their people.
That was why it was a surprise when somewhere around the third week Chadnov wandered over in a way that he probably thought looked casual, sipping one of his now-rare drinks.
“Good eve, Chadnov.” Mogan nodded, thinking. “How is family life treating you?”
“It's a surprise... but how do you do it? How do you live, never seeing her?”
Mogan paused, blinking back tears that he certainly didn't expect. “It's... it's not easy, Chadnov. We... we knew what would happen. I had to disappear, or they would hunt me down, and our daughter to. And she had to show elsewhere, or else they would have looked for her and found us. She landed the shuttle, I carried Ellisan off.... then we turned around to look, and she wasn't there.”
“All this time, I thought you were lucky, blessed more than any of us. It's the opposite, isn't it?”
Mogan stared at the horizon as it tried to crash down on him. Their last few days. The moment when she came back from her meeting with the captain—Shirfa, his name was, but they called him Shircha, Captain Cloaca, because “asshole” just didn't go far enough—when she let them know that she had failed and humanity was declared a non-sapient species. The months they'd spent together, bittersweet months when they'd toured the Sovereignty and also knew that it would tear them apart.
“That's neither here nor there,” Mogan said roughly. “Has something gone wrong?”
“No,” said Chadnov. “We're, uh.. we're actually doing well.” The fact that he had to be defensive about that said that Mogan had failed to hide his feelings as well as he had hoped.
“Please,” Chadnov said. “Be silent and listen.”
Mogan bristled for a moment—this was a hunter in disgrace because of his own dumb decisions, after all. But he paused, and with an effort of will, he didn't respond to the command with any insults. “Alright, Chadnov... Speak then. I'll listen, and I'll try to understand.”
Chadnov nodded. “You wonder how it happened, right? I saw some of you looking at her—she has no chest, she has no hips, her legs are just strange—none of you find her sexy, and... really, I don't either. But we talked, every night around the fires, and she and I sort of have the same place, the same role. She stands in the Sovereignty the same way I stand among the San. Not really insulted, but not really respected, either.”
“Look, I'm... I'm not a smart man. I'm... I'm not like you and Ellisan and Burya, I don't always just... know what I should do and do it because I should; I just... try. I know you think I married her because I can't lead anything if I don't... but I can't lead anything if I do either. Everybody knows... I'm very strong and not very smart; I'll never lead a war party or a hunting party or one of these new units, and sometimes I'm angry about that but I think if I did I would get people hurt.. I can't just... somehow come up with the right way, like you guys can. That's magic to me, just like these implants were magic pebbles once to you and the laser rifles were magic firesticks.”
He took a deep breath. “I'm sorry if I caused trouble for everyone else. I'm trying to make it right—by her, not just by you—but sometimes I just don't know what I'm supposed to do. Maybe I'm the kind of guy tradition is made for. I guess there aren't any real decisions to make if tradition makes them for me, right? That's OK—I'm... not good at making decisions. This way I can let all the wise men for generations back make them for me. And they're wiser than me—by the Frozen Valley, maybe everybody's wiser than me—so they're probably right even if it doesn't make sense to me, right?”
“I'm going to be a father, and I never really thought of that. Not smart, I know—I poked everyone that came close enough; I knew I'd be a father someday, but I just let that be in the future somewhere. But then again, I'm not smart, so I try not to stab myself about it; I can't do what I can't do.”
Mogan nodded. “I think I understand, Chadnov. Believe me, I've felt foolish more than once when I first came to the stars. Nothing made sense to me at all. Besides that, I'm a craftsman. I'm the best craftsman I've ever seen... and then they showed me a machine that can make anything. Right away, perfectly. I think I understand how you feel.”
“Maybe,” Chadnov said, “But I've always been like that. I guess I'm lucky—everybody knew I... wasn't good at thinking stuff through. They didn't expect me to. You came back and all of a sudden they expected you to know everything.”
Mogan chuckled drily. “And you call yourself dumb. You're a good man, Chadnov, and you'll be a good husband.”
“I... thank you, Shaman. That's what I'm focusing on right now. But Karshta and I were talking...”
“That's good. Talking with each other, learning about each other, that's a good start to a marriage.”
“I hope so. But she was talking about how the soldiers didn't really want to be here, and how they were happy for an excuse to get away from this. And I was thinking.... And I'm not good at thinking, I know it. But I had this idea. My ideas are bad ideas, everybody tells me that, but I thought, maybe I'd tell you this one, and you could decide for me.”
“Maybe you're judging your cast a little short before you throw, Chadnov. But what were you thinking?”
“Well, the soldiers at the barracks, they don't want to be here. Karshta says that everybody thought this would be a vacation, but the Governess made them run around out in the woods hunting down people they don't really care about. They want to be relaxing out here on the beach like us, not walking all day every day, especially because, well....”
Mogan chuckled. “Because they really can't.”
“Yes, but nobody wants to spend their time like that. So Karshta and I talked, and we thought... I'm sure this is a stupid idea—go ahead and laugh, but I have to say it just in case... What if we just... went to the barracks and asked them to leave? Just.... give them some sovereigns and tell them they can go somewhere else if they say “I surrender”?”
Chadnov flinched and almost fell off his chair—or bed, Mogan was really still not sure—as Mogan leaped to his feet.
“Ellisan! Get the elders, now!”
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2023.03.26 11:05 KittenDealinMama My mother hates me for telling my sister the truth
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Child neglect, mentions of mental health struggles and self harm Original post My mother hates me for telling my sister the truth.
I want to preface this with an apology if it’s all over the place. There’s so much information to sort through and decide what does or doesn’t have a place here. I will reply to what I can and make edits for any common questions/ remarks.
So a little (or a lot) of background is required for this to make any sense. Many years ago my mother had an affair that completely blew up our family. I suppose the affair was the lesser issue, but rather all her other actions that screwed many of us over. For context I was 10, my younger sister was 7/8 and my older sister almost 14- all female.
To start with, in the years prior, my mother had taken out tens of thousands of dollars in loans and credit cards in my dads name, of which he was never aware of. Ignorant, absolutely, but she had always managed all finances while a SAHM. She also managed to make 5 years of GST payments disappear from the business account, for which dad was then charged with two charges (around 100K in fines) of tax evasion on top of the missed payments.
All three of us kids had a bank account set up from young, which our dad had added to so that we would be in a positive position when we were older- for University, or a house deposit, whatever it was that we desired. Being saving orientated even as a kid, I had chosen to put 100% of any money earnt through chores or gifted for birthdays into the account. At 14 when I began working and gained access to net banking I realised mum had drained my account, less $50… only my account.
If that wasn’t enough, her own mother had stored a sum of money in my parents safe that was intended for her funeral. My mother took every last dollar and refused to pay it back- my dad paid it back with interest when he found out.
Due to the tricky financial situation, dad had to travel for work, wherever the trade was needed in that moment. Typically he would leave in the early hours of Monday morning and return on Saturday afternoon. In this time my mother felt it appropriate to leave us at home so that she could visit the affair partner, usually not coming home for days at a time. Nobody knew- we had no carers or access to resource as we lived a 20 minute drive to the nearest town/stores.
This went on for a few weeks before my mum (sometimes) contacted our cousin to come stay with us while she was out… To this day I believe that only happened because the other guy figure out what was going on. Due to timing of people coming and going our dad didn’t know any of this happened to until months later. I kept quiet because I knew he couldn’t afford to stay home.
All this said- I stepped into the parent role. My little sister was kept in the dark as much as possible, I did my best to maintain her same routine so that she felt as little impact as possible. Obviously she suffered, to the point of requesting to sleep in my bed every night for a year, but it seems that she doesn’t remember any of the shitty things that happened back then.
My older sister was very mentally ill, where I had to medicate her each morning and conduct daily body and room checks. Those who know will get what I’m suggesting… To the best of my knowledge our little sister never saw any of this- I didn’t and don’t believe those are subject such little eyes should have to witness. The older sister was also really ashamed and has asked to keep this situation away from the youngest as she had a habit of speaking without realising or knowing the potential damage.
As much as I hated the responsibility, cooking, cleaning, hiding the families dirty laundry; I was also very aware that what was happening wasn’t okay. That if I couldn’t keep it together and matters hidden, that authorities would become involved. Those times were scary but the idea of not having access to and control over what happened to me or my siblings felt like it would be worse.
These are only the first things that come to mind but the details aren’t exactly the point of this post.
Anyway, I guess my younger sister’s soon to be in laws have asked some questions, of which my sister doesn’t have the ability to answer. I would suggest she asked our mother first but the queries would have been shut down. I know she feels guilty, knows that she screwed up, and frankly I hope she never forgives herself for it.
So, little sister came to me and for the first time in 15 years I was willing to give her the answers she was looking for. I’ve always been vague, not wanting to cause her pain, but I’ve started feeling guilty in recent years for not treating her as enough of an adult to make her own decisions. After a loooot of therapy, I have realised that I don’t have to be their parent anymore. My sister cried, I cried, and she apologised for assumption made and words said because she didn’t know any better in the past. She needs and wants time to process a whole lot of information that’s entirely new to her, that has quite literally flipped the way she has perceived many people over the years.
Anywho… she isn’t speaking to our mother right now and that’s where it becomes my problem, I guess. She called me, blowing up, claiming I’ve ruined her relationship with her daughter. That I’m out to get her, resentful without cause and need to stop living in the past. But I don’t see how me being honest about her actions is my fault? Could I have filtered details? Maybe. But I don’t understand why I should have to hold onto the pressure of keeping her shortcomings secret. Maybe it’s time to grow up and pay for the consequences of your actions….
Edit: to add genders.
In the comments: She’s never taken any responsibility, only made excuses. My favourite was the one for her leaving us to care for ourselves- “you all made it clear you didn’t want to spend time with me”.
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I feel like she thought she’d gotten away with it at this point and that’s why she’s mad. To be honest I only told my sister for selfish reasons… we’ve only in recent years developed a close relationship and I didn’t want to lose that if she became mad at me for not telling her anything. I know there was always a layer of resentment towards me for “thinking I was the boss of her”. She needed somebody to be mad at and at the time I was okay with that person being me.
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Children (and young adults) get mad at the people it is safe to be mad at. It sounds like you took that anger to give her a safe space and a safe person. Now that she's of an age where she is old enough to hear the truth, where it's safe for her to be angry at your mom without risking breaking your family apart, you've given her the truth. That's quite heroic. I hope you find the peace and space to have a life of your own free from your mother's negligent abuse. You've certainly more than earned it.
OP: I never considered the aspect of somebody needing to be safe to be mad at them. That puts a lot into perspective… thank you. Tbh my mother has no influence over my life or feelings. I stopped regarding her as a parental figure long ago so her opinion of me, someone she really had no part in moulding, means nothing. Don’t get me wrong, I do not place the blame for all wrong doings exclusively on her, but she was certainly the catalyst for most of the difficult seasons. Every action or inaction I’ve ever made has been a decision to protect the other people she hurt which only served to protect her from backlash and I think it’s time she faced up.
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In some ways I think caring for them was all that kept me sane. I was so busy and exhausted by the day to day motions that I didn’t have time to reflect on my own feelings or the situation as a whole. Full survival mode I suppose. I appreciate that, a lot. I tried my best… in hindsight doing for them what I probably needed myself.
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She was cut out for a very long time. The stolen money (from myself) was the absolute last straw which resulted in me going no contact for about 5 years. Part of me thinks she was glad for that, too, because I’d threatened to press charges against the mystery thief if she didn’t fess up. But because of my sisters age, and her eventually choosing to live with mum, I felt compelled to be civil because I missed my sister. I live 4 hours from my hometown now, so maintaining a healthy distance is really quite easy.
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Curious about your dad, how is he doing rn? After knowing the truth, did your younger sister go living with your dad? And did he divorce your mother? And all that money she stole, what was she doing with that money? Did you get any of your money back?
OP: He’s doing really good, but of course had had a long time to pick up the pieces. In his 50s and still working 6 days a week- not because he needs to but because he’s never known anything else. His parents were immigrants so it was quite literally bred into him.
She’s 22 now and living with her partner. She and dad never had a strained relationship but after years of living exclusively with him, decided to spend the next few years with mum. Never any bad blood on either end where she’s concerned. They did divorce long ago, and as much as I find it strange, they still have a relatively positive relationship.
The money…. Literally who knows. Never saw a cent returned though! Dad didn’t know she stole from me until 6 ish years ago. Early on he was struggling and I knew he’d try to put the money back if I told him. He knew something had happened for me not to talk to my mother all those years but I hadn’t told him and she sure wasn’t going to.
Recently my husband and I built our first home and he was insistent on cutting “trade swaps” to save money which I strongly feel was his way of repaying her debt to me. He’s a great dad… has his flaws as every human does, but every step he’s taken has been with the intention of his kids not having to want for things as he and his siblings did.
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I only tolerated her in the past to keep my sister close- I don’t trust our mother to not hurt her in the process of getting what she wants. The partners family aren’t stupid and while they will hand out finance they will never relinquish control of it. If they suspect somebody of having ill intent, they’re cut out of all their lives. Mums husband does pretty well for himself and pays all their living expenses, but knowing her past will not give her unbridled access so she has to work to support her spending habit which is probably where the jealousy comes in.
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I used to tell my sister that I “don’t really know”, “can’t remember”, or “have only heard snippets of the story”, so not necessarily a lie but definitely deceit by omission.
1st Update: Aaaand now she’s resorted to posting on Facebook, claiming that one of her “ingrates are spreading rumours to ruin her” JFC 🤦🏼♀️ I don’t even have Facebook, so not really sure what she’s trying to achieve in doing this, but an old family friend called my dad to ask what’s going on. Also, I’m speaking to nobody about the situation? I don’t even live in our hometown!!! If nothing else- she has nothing for me to ruin. No way I’m engaging or sinking to her level but seriously… what a waste of a person. Now the parents are fighting, she’s fighting with her current husband and shit is all around just getting messy. She thinks she’s making people feel sorry for her but mostly she just looks pathetic, if you ask me.
Update 2: Turns out I REALLY don’t need to sink to her level, that’s been taken care of while I sleep. I guess mums privacy settings aren’t great and that’s working against her. The vague ‘woe is me’ post has been shared by three family members/ friends with a single, but far less cryptic, one liner. I’m told: “oh you mean the ingrate that raised your kids?”, “Should she be more grateful for your affair or the complete and utter abandonment of your three kids” and my absolute favourite (from my granny) “rot in hell you lying thieving bitch”
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2023.03.26 11:04 SimpSupposer Today was a total shitshow and I walked out (rant)
Hey fellow employees and Pizza Hut fans. (This is mainly a rant post about today since it was a total shitshow)
So my Pizza Hut I work at, is already really understaffed and we really need as most help as we can get, 3 cooks total, me and two other people know what they’re doing, and a new hire who started today (Saturday)
I’m not sure who’s idea it was, either the assistant manager or the general manager, but someone decided it would be an amazing idea to start and have one of our two shift leads train the new hire to do morning prep on a Saturday. I got to work at 3pm and he was working on dinnerbox pizzas. This went totally south way too fast. I mostly do cut table, so naturally I checked and seen if everything was stocked for the shift. Nothing. No marinara ready, dipping sauce shelves not filled at all, nearly no boxes stocked, a few dessert boxes and no Cinnabon.
Natural reaction, I was already pretty upset, then I checked the retarder (whatever it’s called) no prepped BNYs, very few prepped stuffed crust (7 to be exact) only medium HTT and medium thin was the only thing we had the proper amount of prepped. Apparently no one worked the proofer either because we had so few breadstick dough we ran out within 2 hours.
My shift was from 3pm-11:30pm, long story short, I was overwhelmed, it was me and the other shift lead (in training) practically running the store while super crowded, I had pizzas start to burn because of how many pizzas were in the oven while going as fast as possible running from cut to wingstreet. The assistant manager was in but she’s sick and still forced to come in, and suffer I guess because she can barely walk (recovering from Covid) everyone was upset, drivers were upset because their orders were taking a while, customers were upset because of the same reason, absolute clusterfuck. On top of all of this, today was the 7th day in a row I’ve worked 8 hours. I was so tired and overwhelmed with all of the stress, I told the shift lead and walked out around 8pm. I can handle a lot when it comes to Pizza Hut, I’ve been here for 4 months. I couldn’t handle it and needed a break, my next day off since last Saturday would’ve been Monday so I’m already being overworked.
If I’m not allowed to come back to work, I’ll just find another job, I’m not doing that again
Oh yeah also all of that stress for $10/hour, not worth it.
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2023.03.26 11:04 ThrowRAgreenn My ex wife's infidelity is making me (42M) a crappy partner for my current gf (35F)
I apologize for the lengthy post. My ex wife cheated on me many years ago, about 12 years ago to be specific (this was about 5 years into our marriage at the time). Anyway, she cheated on me and only told me because she got pregnant. We were still having sex regularly at that time so there was a chance that the child was mine. She was certain that the other dude was the father so her way of handling this was to abort the pregnancy and try to tell me that she had miscarried. I found this out and we separated for about 3 weeks. I was obviously very hurt. I was also a coward and terrified to be alone so I took her back, even though I had fallen out of love with her and was never able to rekindle that love. We were married for 10 more years and have 2 amazing children together.
Eventually my mental health began to deteriorate and my anxiety was through the roof. I told her that I had not loved her for some time and we divorced. This was nearly 2 years ago and I currently have an amazing girlfriend. Because I never seemed to have directly addressed the issues stemming from my wife's betrayal and the abortion of what may have been my child, my insecurity threatens to ruin what I believe is a great relationship with a woman who genuinely loves me. I seem to pick at things to find reasons to hurt my own feelings and unfairly turn these around on her. My intrusive thoughts constantly tell me that I can never trust another woman and I find myself sabatoging myself and any chance I have at being happy with her.
Thank you all for reading. I would appreciate any advice, particularly if anyone has a similar experience. Even if you don't have advice, thank you for any encouragement, I hope that maybe just the act of writing or my concerns might help me finally address my own issues.
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2023.03.26 11:03 Embarrassed-Dig-0 My therapist doesn’t seem to believe me when I say I have no friends + other things have irked me, can I have some advice?
I am 21 with social anxiety disorder. It’s gotten really severe in the past year. Alright this is kind of embarrassing but:
I started seeing a new therapist like 2 months ago bc my last one no longer worked for the organization.
it’s been okay but a few things have irked me. One being that she seems to not believe me when I say I don’t have friends.
One of our first convos went like this:
“Do you have any friends”
“No unfortunately”
“Really?🧐”
“yeah, I definitely want some though and want to work on that”
“You don’t have any friends?” (In a “you can’t be serious” tone)
“Uh yeah I don’t have any friends. I know some people say they don’t but they’ll actually have a lot but I really don’t have any haha” (I felt weird by this pointt but dismissed this)
I can tell she didn’t believe me even after that last comment.
Since then I’ve noticed little comments like “(words) since you say you don’t have any friends”. Her saying “say” specifically made me question if she was still doubting me- but since I don’t want to look too deep into something that was probably in my head I totally brushed these off.
But at our last session there was one point in which she said “well (words) since you claim to have no friends”.
Tf? Why would I lie about having no friends? Like it’s embarrassing to admit. The use of the word “claim” and the fact that she seemed to doubt my statements again seriously bothered me - I didn’t say anything though, I don’t want to make something out of nothing if I’m just looking to deep into it.
———
Another thing to mention, I sometimes see her giggle as our sessions end. At first I found it funny cuz in my head I was like lol im awkward, but it’s happened other times and she did it again our last session but more than usual - like, once we said “bye” she started quietly giggling to herself multiple times before she could end the zoom call. But again, I don’t want to make something out of nothing so I’ve tried to brush this aside.
———
One of my issues is that I can’t tell when people are being rude to me, even when they have been in the past (I know bc I’d get confirmation from others or they eventually became rude to an obvious extent), so I tell myself it’s nothing if I ever feel like this. But I’m getting weird vibes.
Here was another convo, I think this one is just me overthinking though, tell me what you think:
We were talking about me getting nervous in a group at school that asked me to join their study group and the grocery store.
I had already talked about how I didn’t know how to greet the group last semester so I’d say hi to one of them and then stay silent, cause i didn’t know if I should say hi to each one,
And in reference to the grocery store I said: “Yeah when I go to the register at the grocery store with my parent I just stay silent the whole time and my parent will greet them. Since they already said hi to each other I don’t know what to do and I get super nervous”.
So she thought for a few seconds and said “Hmm, how do you think you’d feel as the cashier if a group didn’t speak to you”.
I thought about my answer and replied “To be honest I doubt I’d mind as the cashier, but I think in the school-group setting it might make them uncomfortable, since I see them everyday and there’s more of an expectation.”
So she said in a fast / seemingly annoyed tone “ Hm, yeah, that makes sense, cashiers are used to people treating them like they’re invisible (words)”
By the way - my last two jobs were as a cashier lmfao.
So then I said, “Well I was a cashier and I preferred when only one person from the group would say hi, it made me less nervous, which why I said that”
She replied “Ohhhh yeah that changes things.”
———
Can you tell me what you think? Am I looking too much into it? I feel like I’m getting pent up resentment / annoyance but not saying anything in case it’s all in my head. Need some outside opinions and i don’t have the friends to ask (lol).
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2023.03.26 11:02 Embarrassed-Dig-0 My therapist doesn’t seem to believe me when I say I have no friends + other things have irked me, can I have some input
I am 21 with social anxiety disorder. It’s gotten really severe in the past year. Alright this is kind of embarrassing but:
I started seeing a new therapist like 2 months ago bc my last one no longer worked for the organization.
it’s been okay but a few things have irked me. One being that she seems to not believe me when I say I don’t have friends.
One of our first convos went like this:
“Do you have any friends”
“No unfortunately”
“Really?🧐”
“yeah, I definitely want some though and want to work on that”
“You don’t have any friends?” (In a “you can’t be serious” tone)
“Uh yeah I don’t have any friends. I know some people say they don’t but they’ll actually have a lot but I really don’t have any haha” (I felt weird by this pointt but dismissed this)
I can tell she didn’t believe me even after that last comment.
Since then I’ve noticed little comments like “(words) since you say you don’t have any friends”. Her saying “say” specifically made me question if she was still doubting me- but since I don’t want to look too deep into something that was probably in my head I totally brushed these off.
But at our last session there was one point in which she said “well (words) since you claim to have no friends”.
Tf? Why would I lie about having no friends? Like it’s embarrassing to admit. The use of the word “claim” and the fact that she seemed to doubt my statements again seriously bothered me - I didn’t say anything though, I don’t want to make something out of nothing if I’m just looking to deep into it.
———
Another thing to mention, I sometimes see her giggle as our sessions end. At first I found it funny cuz in my head I was like lol im awkward, but it’s happened other times and she did it again our last session but more than usual - like, once we said “bye” she started quietly giggling to herself multiple times before she could end the zoom call. But again, I don’t want to make something out of nothing so I’ve tried to brush this aside.
———
One of my issues is that I can’t tell when people are being rude to me, even when they have been in the past (I know bc I’d get confirmation from others or they eventually became rude to an obvious extent), so I tell myself it’s nothing if I ever feel like this. But I’m getting weird vibes.
Here was another convo, I think this one is just me overthinking though, tell me what you think:
We were talking about me getting nervous in a group at school that asked me to join their study group and the grocery store.
I had already talked about how I didn’t know how to greet the group last semester so I’d say hi to one of them and then stay silent, cause i didn’t know if I should say hi to each one,
And in reference to the grocery store I said: “Yeah when I go to the register at the grocery store with my parent I just stay silent the whole time and my parent will greet them. Since they already said hi to each other I don’t know what to do and I get super nervous”.
So she thought for a few seconds and asked “Hmm, how do you think you’d feel as the cashier if the whole group didn’t speak to you”?
I thought about my answer and replied “To be honest I doubt I’d mind as the cashier as long as one of them said hi, but I think in the school-group setting it might make them uncomfortable, since I see them everyday and there’s more of an expectation.”
So she said in a fast / seemingly annoyed tone “ Hm, yeah, that makes sense, cashiers are used to people treating them like they’re invisible (words)”
By the way - my last two jobs were as a cashier lmfao.
So then I said, “Well I was a cashier and I preferred when only one person from the group would say hi, it made me less nervous, which why I said that”
She replied “Ohhhh yeah that changes things.”
———
Can you tell me what you think? Am I looking too much into it? I feel like I’m getting pent up resentment / annoyance but not saying anything in case it’s all in my head. Need some outside opinions and i don’t have the friends to ask (lol).
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2023.03.26 11:01 bradtohostmemereview Should I go to the last showing?
This Wednesday will be the last showing of twow here and I'm contemplating going again.
Contra: I've watched it 4 times already tbh, and after the fourth I thought to myself that it was enough. And I think that exact Wednesday twow will become available on disney+ and in stores so I could just watch it at home the exact same time. Plus these four viewings in cinema were all in 3D and at this point I would rather watch it in plain simple 2D. And lastly it's in my native dub which is very good, but I always prefer the original.
Pro: But on the other hand this movie is great on the big screen. And I just loved going to the cinema to watch it the first four times. And at this point the entire room would be empty besides me and like 3 more people which also sounds good.
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2023.03.26 11:00 ThrowRA8592 I (20FTM) am not convinced my friend (23NB) does not have a crush on me and I don't know what to do, we've been friends for about a year
I (20, trans male) am not convinced my friend (23, nonbinary) doesn't have a crush on me. Something important to note before I explain, I am neurodivergent so therefore I have a hard time understanding social cues and tone, but I don't wish to further elaborate since this is a throwaway account. With that being said, I will now give a little context as to how I got to this point. So, I have been friends with this person for about a year by now, and admittedly I did have a small crush on them when I first met them, but it immediately began to fade when I learned that they're asexual and aromantic, basically telling me that I had no chance with them. We used to be kind of distant at the beginning, they wouldn't message me too often, maybe once or twice in a week, and we would usually talk over voice call on discord maybe every other day or so? But it was never a private voice call, it was always where other people could come in as they liked. Albeit, the server was small, but sometimes friends would join in and stick around. Anyway, point being, we mostly chatted over voice call in public spaces for the first portion of our friendship. After some time, I grew a little distant from discord as a whole, so I usually took a while to reply to them and I was less on voice call, but we got closer again when I started messaging them through whatsapp, since it's less hassle for me because discord is slow on my phone. Anyway, when we started messaging on whatsapp, thats when I started questioning if they had a crush on me because they would message me every single day, without fail, and would want to call whenever they got the chance. They started getting busy because of school and work, so it was understandable that they would message me whenever they got the chance, but I always found it strange that they would message me good morning every morning, compared to the fact they never used to do that. There's also a few other things they do/did that make me question if they have a thing for me, but I can't remember off the top of my head. I have asked them twice now if they have a crush on me and both times they've told me no, confidently, and the second time they said, "No, sorry. I see myself more as a parental figure towards you than anything else." When I asked them why they were sorry, since I told them I was just curious didn't mean anytging by it before I asked if they have a crush on me, they said, "Because I expected you to want me to have a crush on you." Not weird on its own, in my opinion, but given the context, I think its a little strange, since they know I have a girlfriend (Sorry, forgot to mention that). They are also friends with my girlfriend to an extent, but even my girlfriend is skeptical of my friend because she feels the same way I do about this situatuon. I tell my girlfriend almost everything that happens with this friend of mine, and she has never liked this friend, so this has just given her more reason to dislike my friend. As for the reason my girlfriend has never liked her? Well, she doesn't like very many people, but that's a whole other story. I don't mind that she doesn't like my friend. I would really appreciate advice on what to do in this situation, I've even been thinking about cutting contact with the friend, but at the same time, I like being friends with them... Something else I think I should mention; I met my girlfriend and this friend of mine around the same time, but I was not dating my girlfriend yet when I had a small crush on this friend.
TLDR: I am neurodivergent, so I can't understand social cues/tone. Friend of mine, 23NB, seems like they may have a crush on me, but has told me they don't more than once, and that they see me as more of their child. Was not as close, rarely messaging and usually voice calling in public spaces near beginning of friendship, but recently have gotten closer as we moved from discord to whatsapp, and they now message a good morning message every day, as well as wanting to call as much as their schedule allows. Girlfriend is skeptical of them, she feels the same way I do, that it's strange my friend has suddenly gotten closer to me. I need advice on what to do please.
Sorry if my TLDR is too long, I'm not good at summaries. Feel free to skim if need be.
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2023.03.26 11:00 AgentSmart1 [H] Sport Gloves Slingshot MW 0.072 [W] 31000rmb
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2023.03.26 10:59 Artistique01 I need help getting rid of getsearchredirecting
I have had all my searches in Chrome get redirected thru getsearchredirecting.com which redirects to Bing. It has been easy for me to get it to stop redirecting it to Bing in the Chrome settings, however, every search goes thru getsearchredirecting.com before going to Google or the URL I have typed in.
The few places online that have gone over uow to delete this hijacker have not yielded any results for me. I have deleted all untrustworthy Chrome extensions, cleared my cache numerous times and used numerous anti-virus programs to get rid of it, but none of them can detect it.
I've used: Chrome's own malware scanner in it's settings. Malwarebytes adw Cleaner 360 Total Security Hitman Pro And numerous other programs, none of which have picked it up.
I really don't want to have to delete my Chrome account and start over, as I have so much stored info, site data, logins, etc, but this hijacker is doing my head in, even if it's not actually doing anything,I'm always wondering if it's doing stuff behind the scenes, or slowing my Chrome browser down.
If anyone can help, it would be MUCH appreciated!
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2023.03.26 10:59 willambros I think my job seeking journey pretty much wrote my enneatype and tritype in stone
I really wasn't sure up until now: everyone say 3, 5, 6 or 8. But I nearly accidentally snagged a job in a private finance firm. Multiple interviews later, I finally started the job training and was one of the two who managed to complete and pass the course and final exam.
Despite my imposter syndrome, I pulled through for some damn reason. I wanted to prove to myself that I'm worth something, that I can learn anything and show that I didn't want to quit.
Job growth is there and it's quick, paycheck is fat, job benefits are huge, I wasn't gonna let this opportunity go. In my head all I could think about me refusing to settle for less, be a loser or a nobody.
Now, I'm still confused about Enneagram types, but I need to confirm this. Does this sound like a damn 3 or do I go on with my internal crisis about not being able to label myself?
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2023.03.26 10:59 Mr-Reanimator Is there any way to protect my vehicle from taking on the smell of the local factory?
Hia, I live near a factory that pollutes the town like you wouldn't believe, and for the same reason that I still live here, I'm finding myself in a position to have to trade in my vehicle for a new one. It's not actually new, it's used, but it's new to me.
I wanted to hopefully safeguard the car, at least the interior of it, from the vile smell of pollutants that seeps into everything here, if that's possible. I'm pretty sure the answer is going to be that it isn't, or that it would be a lot of work to keep it temporarily free of that pestilence, but I thought I'd ask anyway... just in case there's even a slim chance that there's something super basic that could be done.
If it helps to know, the main materials in the vehicle are leather (not faux leather), metal, and plastic.
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2023.03.26 10:58 Embarrassed-Dig-0 My therapist doesn’t believe me when I say I have no friends + other things bother me, can I get some input?
I am 21 with social anxiety disorder. It’s gotten really severe in the past year. Alright this is kind of embarrassing but:
I started seeing a new therapist like 2 months ago bc my last one no longer worked for the organization.
it’s been okay but a few things have irked me. One being that she seems to not believe me when I say I don’t have friends.
One of our first convos went like this:
“Do you have any friends”
“No unfortunately”
“Really?🧐”
“yeah, I definitely want some though and want to work on that”
“You don’t have any friends?” (In a “you can’t be serious” tone)
“Uh yeah I don’t have any friends. I know some people say they don’t but they’ll actually have a lot but I really don’t have any haha” (I felt weird by this pointt but dismissed this)
I can tell she didn’t believe me even after that last comment.
Since then I’ve noticed little comments like “(words) since you say you don’t have any friends”. Her saying “say” specifically made me question if she was still doubting me- but since I don’t want to look too deep into something that was probably in my head I totally brushed these off.
But at our last session there was one point in which she said “well (words) since you claim to have no friends”.
Tf? Why would I lie about having no friends? Like it’s embarrassing to admit. The use of the word “claim” and the fact that she seemed to doubt my statements again seriously bothered me - I didn’t say anything though, I don’t want to make something out of nothing if I’m just looking to deep into it.
———
Another thing to mention, I sometimes see her giggle as our sessions end. At first I found it funny cuz in my head I was like lol im awkward, but it’s happened other times and she did it again our last session but more than usual - like, once we said “bye” she started quietly giggling to herself multiple times before she could end the zoom call. But again, I don’t want to make something out of nothing so I’ve tried to brush this aside.
———
One of my issues is that I can’t tell when people are being rude to me, even when they have been in the past (I know bc I’d get confirmation from others or they eventually became rude to an obvious extent), so I tell myself it’s nothing if I ever feel like this. But I’m getting weird vibes.
Here was another convo, I think this one is just me overthinking though, tell me what you think:
We were talking about me getting nervous in a group at school that asked me to join their study group and the grocery store.
I had already talked about how I didn’t know how to greet the group last semester so I’d say hi to one of them and then stay silent, cause i didn’t know if I should say hi to each one,
And in reference to the grocery store I said: “Yeah when I go to the register at the grocery store with my parent I just stay silent the whole time and my parent will greet them. Since they already said hi to each other I don’t know what to do and I get super nervous”.
So she thought for a few seconds and asked “Hmm, how do you think you’d feel as the cashier if the whole group didn’t speak to you”?
I thought about my answer and replied “To be honest I doubt I’d mind as the cashier as long as one of them said hi, but I think in the school-group setting it might make them uncomfortable, since I see them everyday and there’s more of an expectation.”
So she said in a fast / seemingly annoyed tone “ Hm, yeah, that makes sense, cashiers are used to people treating them like they’re invisible (words)”
By the way - my last two jobs were as a cashier lmfao.
So then I said, “Well I was a cashier and I preferred when only one person from the group would say hi, it made me less nervous, which why I said that”
She replied “Ohhhh yeah that changes things.”
———
Can you tell me what you think? Am I looking too much into it? I feel like I’m getting pent up resentment / annoyance but not saying anything in case it’s all in my head. Need some outside opinions and i don’t have the friends to ask (lol).
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2023.03.26 10:57 DingFling Less than one month into Lightfall and I'm done
After dabbling in all the previous expansions, the Witch Queen was the first time I tried the seasonal content. The WQ campaign was exceptional and felt like a AAA game in its own right but it didn't take long to grow tired of the seasonal model and the grind that was required to stay up to date.
With all the talk of the big changes that were announced, I purchased the deluxe version of Lightfall and, just a month in, I feel like I can't face the grind any more.
To summarise:
- The campaign was boring with a poor story, characters that are not interesting or engaging in any way and it wasn't even a decent introduction to Strand (which would have been much better if it was nearly all unlocked by the end. But, no, you have to grind to unlock every fragment. It's not as bad as the grind required to unlock Stasis but that's hardly praise).
- Guardian Ranks are just another, more grindy, version of seasonal challenges; i.e. another way to grind through the same old tired content.
- Commendations are poorly thought out and are now just another type of grind; play the ritual activities over and over and over and, eventually, you will get to the number you need for the guardian rank. I'm mean, come on, that's not how these were sold to us.
- The Seasonal model is identical in every way to the previous four (and from what I've read it goes back further than that) with little snippets of story to keep us on the drip feed of content while we continue the grind.
Just to balance things a little, Strand is cool and the loadout system is a good addition. However, both are not enough to keep me engaged.
I feel like if they got rid of power levels it would improve things slightly but I'd be scared to see what they came up with as a replacement. The game currently has far too many progression systems; vendors, quests, power levels, seasonal challenges, guardian ranks, triumphs, seals, titles, season pass ranks, are there any I'm missing? Why not streamline these? What would the game look like if it had just quests, season pass ranks and triumphs? The quests would be what you do when you log in, a single place to go when you're looking to progress through the game. The season pass rank system is good enough as it is for earning rewards but they could expand it and add more rewards such as high stat armor and decent roll and red border weapons. Finally, triumphs would be the grindiest for those that want that and titles could be built into those (e.g. get 80 out of 100 triumphs for the title).
The above changes would keep me engaged without feeling like I have to play every day of the year.
If I feel like this after only a year of engagement, I cannot imagine how people feel who have been here for years. If grind is what you are after then I guess you're content but I've had enough.
Sorry if that feels like a rant and it's all been said before but I just wanted to get it off my chest as a sort of catharsis and a reminder to myself that I would be the biggest hypocrite out there if I continued to engage in the grind.
Does anyone else feel the same?
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2023.03.26 10:57 Superteletubbies64 [H] Gotham Knights €15, Biomutant €6 and other stuff for sale [W] Paypal preferably, trades (only for Lil Gator Game, Patch Quest, Tunche (maybe), The Legend of Heroes: Trails in the Sky, Zombotron, Yonder, Minute of Islands, Scarlet Hood and the Wicked Wood, Wishlist, Creepy Tale 1&2 (maybe)
Gotham Knights and Biomutant are the only games I have a set price for, neither are for trade, don't send me a list of random games asking to trade for them or I'll block you. EU preferred, I can take $ but 1$ more for Gotham Knights and 0.50$ more for Biomutant because € and $ aren't equal and you have to cover fees. Same with pounds but less.
Only interested in Paypal offers and games in the title don't comment if you don't have either to offer. For AAA games I'm only taking Paypal offers, not trades Any comments with lists of random games I likely already own will be ignored and possibly blocked. My region is EU, if you are outside of EU you have to cover Paypal fees. I do not have a set price for anything, if you ask "how much for" you'll be asked if you have a price in mind.
Jurassic World Evolution 2
BIOMUTANT (might keep)
Hero's Hour (might keep)
Rogue Lords
Golden Light
Batora: Lost Haven (might keep)
Call of the Sea
Hellblade: Senua's Sacrifice
112 Operator
911 Operator
Agent in Depth
Alchemist's Castle
Arcade Spirits
Armello
Backbone
Cris Tales
Death Squared
Detached: Non-VR Edition
Doughlings: Arcade
Doughlings: Invasion
Euro Truck Simulator 2
Farming Simulator 17
Firegirl: Hack 'n Splash Rescue (might keep)
Frick, Inc.
Ghostrunner
Gotham Knights
Guilty Gear X2 #Reload
Guns & Fishes
Hack 'n' Slash
Hyper Gunsport
Izmir: An Independence Simulator
Lighthouse Keeper
Little Orpheus (might keep)
Lust from Beyond: M Edition
Meow Express
MirrorMoon EP
Monaco
Mount & Blade: Warband
Non-Stop Raiders
Orbital Racer
Pathfinder: Kingmaker
PAYDAY 2
Planet TD
Project Chemistry
Quadrata
Remnants of Naezith
Rym 9000
Soul Searching
Soulblight
Soulflow
Space Crew: Legendary Edition
Stacking
Stick Fight: The Game
Strange Brigade
Stygian: Reign of the Old Ones
Sunlight
SYMMETRY
System Shock 2
System Shock: Enhanced Edition
The Amazing American Circus
The Inner World
Ticket to Ride
Worms Rumble
XCOM 2
X-Morph: Defense Complete Pack
XEL
Zombie Driver HD Complete Edition
Dorfromantik (might keep)
DARQ (might keep)
Fallout
Five Dates
Othercide (might keep)
My full list of games:
https://barter.vg80b7/t/ (this link might be more up to date than the list above)
Full wishlist (bundled games are at the top so you don't have to scroll through tons of unbundled and upcoming games):
https://barter.vg80b7/w/f/?filter=0,17,0,0 https://store.steampowered.com/wishlist/id/superteletubbies64/ IGSRep (no longer updating):
https://old.reddit.com/IGSRep/comments/p7k848/superteletubbies64s_igs_rep_page/ submitted by
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